Spread the love, it's free!

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Written 14th December 2024

When was the last time you and your partner spent the evening together? Just sitting there talking? About your lives, your thoughts? Without your phone next to you? Without the telly on?


You should try this. It's incredibly sensual.


Sit somewhere on a dining chair each facing each other and hug. Start stroking your partners face, and neck, and hair, their back.  Start kissing. Feel the connection. Feel their warmth. Make every stroke and touch about transmitting your love to them. Show them how much you care for them through your fingers and your lips.


Spend ten minutes lost in your tenderness and love for this other person who matters the most to you. This is not foreplay just an opportunity to connect.


Cost free. Making your relationship stronger, priceless.



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